You know, I can't drop the person that attacked me a few days ago. I can't ignore her. It's obvious that there is something for me to discover, and I am discovering all right.

I'm noticing that I've watched what she writes with a certain interest, and I'm discovering more and more of the spectrum of who she is (or at least, what she wants to show of herself on-line). And truth be told, she's very far from what I called her in my fury. I still feel that she was judging me and my parents, completely unnecessarily and without really knowing us, but the way I felt about her at that moment was a judgement as well. I really thought of her as a bitch then.

From reading her recent posts, I discover a warm, caring person who can be a bit judgemental at times, but who still shows a lot of values that I entirely agree with. Through reading those posts, I've felt my anger melt away and a warm and loving feeling appear instead. It helps tremendously when I'm discussing with her on board (which I happen to do right now).

Ha! Listening to my own words, I could wonder if I was falling in love :-). And no, that's not what's going on at all. It's just nice to see how my perception of a person changes over time, and how it changes for the better.